I wonder how men can be so insensitive sometimes.

What's with the taken for grantedness? Just because we women are there for you, does not mean we do not need your help. It doesn't mean we will not appreciate just the 'asking' or noticing the fine details that you used to.

seriously, they're frm your side..why don't you take the initiative? We do not necessarily need to put in all those extra effort. But its because we want the place to look normal, to look presentable and showcase the facade of family. Are you taking the things that the women have done for you before, a natural inclination? A duty that we are supposed to perform?

seriously one can feel a bit down after all the accumulated neglect and lack of time spent together as a couple. But the little things that she does..the things that you would have commented on once upon a time, one that she expects now, yet does not receive an inkling of it.. really dashes her hopes, put down the efforts taken, and make her question the meaning of a relationship. Will something that was all sparks and fireworks once upon a time slowly become the burnt end of a sparkler?

As the years fly by, how does the definition of love shift? What is love indeed. It is something that mellows, something that endures, something that lingers. When does love become a habit? When does it transform into a burden or something to fall back upon? When does it lose all its meaning?

How does marriage even sustain itself. How can one believe in marriage. Why are emotions so complicated in the 1st place? Why can't it be made simpler and standardized and universal.

*sigh*